Much like I earlier alluded to, we are carried away in the ways we make much of things that in reality comes nowhere near it. We in fact tell ourselves so much in the process and reinforce it so many times to ourselves that we end up believing it ourselves and the very instant we notice a dissonance we are pulled into a well of uncomfortable questions. However, we do not really confront it. We have our ways to look past it or words to call it something we think it is. I have

I think I presented a rather questionable proposition. As much as I might (or might not) illustrate that being a better person for others is not the answer unless everyone is trying to be better I am a highly preachy and dogmatic about being better parents. One could argue that every parent makes his or her life about great parenting but then it is also where mostly everything goes wrong. A young human is more open to change than an older one and if you could leave imprints

It falls in the same line as the ideas I previously delved into. If it is easy to appear as something than be something then that is the way to go. Or is it? ‘Fake it till you make it’ is a difficult to deny tip. It sounds like an excellent plan, it takes out the hardship of how we must gnaw and crawl into the level we want to be and more of learn on the job. So why not. There is obviously that clause in it that says - make it. So the intention sounds good right? The catch is

I need you. No that’s not going where it usually could go. I need you to disagree with me more than agree. Nothing makes me feel more present, nothing makes me feel myself any more. You know how love fades into brief moments as time passes. It becomes less about the things it was first about. But look at your adversary. She/He is coming up with such creative ways to piss you off. They are motivated. Your victories encourage and lights a larger fire in your enemies than their

You don’t overcome shit without being a victim first. What is this pressure to ostracize people who feel victimized? Why look down on them? You cannot be in denial and suddenly win over everything that happened to you. You got to let things happen. You have allow yourself to be consumed or consume the pain and crisis that you face with whatever it takes. Right, I am asking myself, does this sound like I don’t understand what victim mentality is and am I saying the same stuff

That’s what this is. The fact that I mentioned a problem in the last part does not mean I am coming up with a solution in this one, but I just might later on. It’s just that I advocate that, acceptance of humanity and its innate tendency to be flawed, is a more efficient way to accustom ourselves to better coexistence than having faith in humanity. This is not a quote from tumblr but I am quite convinced you’ll find it there - Expectations are the root of all disappointment.